"Find out what everyone else is doing and then do the opposite" - famous saying {Dani Johnson?} and one of my favorite parenting mottoes.
Our family is most peaceful when engaged in nature, imaginative play, and nature exploration.
When my children are engaged in shallow, unimaginative toys it is not as nearly satisfying as seeing them create with nature....'but my child loves { } so much!' I've heard many mamas say before - yes, my child likes candy, too - but that doesn't mean they should have it as much as they want to.
As parents we are facilitators. Facilitating learning, encouraging the imagination, nurturing compassion. Does that mean there is not an inch of disney or media in our home? No, we are not purists. Limiting media and encouraging other options of passing of time, I aim towards.
Last week our second oldest turned 8. We did give
Joash the
choice: a birthday party with friends Or an authentic birthday with
outdoor excursions...that is a hard choice when it means the absence of 'more presents'. We were glad that he opted for the family overnight
trip!
At Wukusko Falls, near Snow Lake Manitoba. We added this place to our definitely-will-go-camping-there list! Two swinging bridges and some campsites with lake access, that we circled on the Campsite map!
Pisew Falls was the other destination. It was a cold weekend, this June, we almost wished we had brought mittens and gloves - but fun was had by all...and I have to admit, walking in the brisk air without the bugs is much more refreshing!
As soon as the children are old enough to handle an overnight hike, I'm looking forward to the
Kwasitchewan Trail, where we can view Manitoba's highest waterfalls - the only access is by trekking the 22k trail.
...so there were no treat bags, overdose on cake and candy, no themed party paraphernalia...tired kids and tired parents, yes! But I hope memories were made at one of his authentic birthdays!
"They key to success is, find out what everyone else is doing and then do the opposite!"